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Thank You For Joining Me For Your Powerful FREE Class From Acclaimed Parenting Coach
Matthew Maynard, LMFT Founder and Creator of the ESP Method

Get Your Kids To CHOOSE Good Behavior!

3 Simple Shifts You Can Make Today to End Power Struggles, Take Back Control and Create the Happy Family Dynamic You Deserve

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I fear my kids won't ever have self control...
They always need me to remind or nag them...I'm exhausted
I need to threaten or yell all the time. Even that doesn't even work.

Believe it or not these struggles are true for ALL of my clients. You can take back control.

With Emotionally Strategic Parenting it is easier (and far less stressful) than you think.
All of my clients have found hope and sustainable changes in their family dynamic. They followed this step-by-step system that focuses more on instilling principles, rather than focusing on problems.
This is what makes Emotionally Strategic Parenting different from ANYTHING else available.

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Emotionally Strategic Parenting
5 Step On-Demand Course

Get Instant Access To The Complete ESP Process!
STOP The Power Struggles, Lecturing and Nagging FOR GOOD!

  • How Your Upbringing Affects Your Parenting

  • How To Grow Your Rapport and Influence

  • In Depth ESP Strategies for Lasting Change

  • Step-By-Step Process For Family Problem Solving

  • Proven System To Implement Accountability AND Deepen Relationships

  • PLUS A FREE BONUS MODULE: The 4 Pillars Of Balance

This exclusive ESP course usually sells for $597

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It is possible to create emotionally resilient, self-sufficient kids without the power struggles or incentivizing. I've done it with HUNDREDS of parents!

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Hi, I am Matt Maynard.

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Private Practice Owner in Westport, Connecticut.
Parents have called me for years desperate for strategies to help them "manage" their children.
They came to me after reading all the "popular parenting" books. Attending parenting workshops. Listening to "expert parents". None of it was working for the LONG HAUL.
Emotionally Strategic Parenting was developed for parents to work themselves OUT of a job, instead of further into one.
Lawn mower parenting, helicopter parenting, and free range have all fallen short for ONE reason.
They only look at to solve problems FOR their kids, instead of instill PRINCIPLES to allow their kids to be empowered!
The world, more so than ever, needs self-sufficient, empowered, and mentally tough young adults. They need resilience to succeed. I am committed to helping parents raise the next generation of leaders and emotionally free thinkers. I know you are too or you wouldn't be seeking out this resource.
So what are you waiting for?
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On-The-Go Audio
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Downloadable "Strategy Sheets"
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No Fluff! A Real
"Wash-Rinse-Repeat" Process!

Module 1: Family of Origin Dynamics

You start the course off by creating emotional awareness around your unconscious triggers. These tend to stem from your family of origin dynamic and role you held as a child, which contributes to your approach in the present.

You will also learn...
  • How experiences from your childhood result in hyperfocusing on them with your children.
  • How family culture when you were younger is no longer relevant, creating unrealistic expectations for your children.
  • Why your parents approach with you may not be effective for today's children.
  • How projection can shape your reactions to your child's behavior both negatively and positively.
  • How emotional boundaries in your upbringing can lead to unhealthy boundaries now.
  • If there are others who are influencing your parenting creating more stress than solutions.

You will have access to a comprehensive reflection worksheet that will assist you in bringing the unconscious to the conscious.

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Module 2: Power of Rapport Building

You will learn to harness the power of rapport building to create influence like never before! I have step-by-step instructions that you can implement immediately to improve your relationship and simultaneously, reduce hostility.

You will also learn...
  • What rapport is and isn't in order to maintain the loving connection you desire.
  • Simple, but effective strategies to start building credibility and connection IMMEDIATELY, so you can be more influential.
  • To avoid the fatal error all parents make, even if they implement the best strategies or have major rapport already.
  • To leverage areas of interest your child has to start dialogue more often.
  • How my "benefit of the doubt" strategy will allow you to maintain rapport, even when there are problems that arise.

This one module alone, has helped parents create the loving bond they so desperately wanted. The worksheets for this module give you actionable steps specific to your child and family.

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Module 3: Core Components of ESP

You will learn in depth ESP strategies that are essential to the model being lasting and sustainable. These ingredients are markers for you to be able to identify efficiently if you are applying the model or not.

You will also learn...
  • How to embrace the three human needs that drive your child's behavior.
  • The 4-parenting types, and which one we will implement due to effectiveness from research.
  • The emotional motivations behind a parent that is either too strict or too accommodating.
  • How compliance based parenting is working against the long-term goals of your child being resilient and independent.
  • How embracing principles, instead of arguing about problems, stops all debates, arguments, and power struggles.
  • The secret strategy that takes away parents from having to accommodate or enable, so you never have to feel guilty AGAIN!
  • The power of leverage and how parents struggle to fully embrace its effectiveness.
  • How we use consequences not to hurt the child, but as leverage to promote reflection, responsibility, and mindfulness.

This one module alone, has helped parents create the loving bond they so desperately wanted. The worksheets for this module give you actionable steps specific to your child and family.

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Module 4: Acclimating the Family to ESP

You will learn the step-by-step process for acclimating the family to taking more personal responsibility, with no anxiety and hostility. This is considered the learning week in the model, as the family is learning to adapt to this new process of problems solving.

You will also learn...
  • The specific principles that you are going to instill in your child.
  • The vital importance of boundaries, both physical and emotional, to create authority in your parenting.
  • How to create a script to inform your children of the changes in your approach.
  • The power of emotionally reflective questioning to stop recurring bad behavior.
  • How Positive Prophesizing can maintain the loving connection you have built, even when problems occur.
  • How this process looks based on a past case I have utilized ESP with.

This one module alone, has helped parents create the loving bond they so desperately wanted. The worksheets for this module give you actionable steps specific to your child and family.

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Module 5: Implementing Accountability

You will learn the complete step-by-step system to implement accountability while maintaining that loving relationship you have built. This module ties the entire ESP system together to establish healthy boundaries, emotional resilience, personal responsibility, and empowerment that will endure.

You will also learn...
  • How to love your child through learning principles, with accountability.
  • When to implement leverage strategically so that it does NOT result in power struggles.
  • To harness backtalk and arguing to use as a means to get your child to take even more ownership and further build rapport.
  • To understand how to react and respond if the child becomes verbally or physically aggressive to deescalate the situation.
  • Why we rinse, wash, repeat this process to harness the law of attrition.
  • How this process looks based on a past case I have utilized ESP with.

The worksheet will allow you to outline specific leverage points, outline a family script for preparing the family, and have a cheat sheet so you can refer to it in times of struggle.

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PLUS A FREE BONUS MODULE:
The 4 Pillars Of Balance (A $197 Value!)

Total Value $597

Special Offer For Webinar Attendees:

$297

Bonus: Get FREE ACCESS to the Matthew Maynard’s
Private Facebook Group When You Enroll Today!

Do Not Click Away!
This Special Offer Is Only Available Here!

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My husband and I were having endless altercations with our 15-year-old son. His unbalanced focus on gaming was disrupting his focus on school, socializing and personal hygiene. Our interactions with him were combative and his personality was volatile and “joyless”. We reached out to Matt as a last resort as our own attempts to improve our relationship with our son and affect his approach to life were not successful. Matt’s guidance was transformative. Matt’s (often humorous) approach piloted us to a place where our son eventually took ownership of the balance in his own life. In a relatively short period of time the interactions with our son became less volatile and more productive. We witnessed him taking ownership of managing his time, personal space, and personal hygiene. Matt’s approach changed the unhealthy dynamic we “unknowingly” were perpetuating with our son. Our son is now “owning” his successes. He takes pride in the balance he has created in his life and seeks out time to talk to us about his academic/life pursuits. Our relationship has improved beyond what we could have ever anticipated. Our time spent following Matt’s strategies and guidance has decompressed our homelife and brought back that “peace of mind” that all parents have when their child is on a positive trajectory in life. We are beyond grateful.

K and S
Parents of 2

It's working. You literally just handed me a KEY!
I can't believe they are more independent without begging for my help to do it for them.

G.S.
Mother of 3

Matt I am still in shock as I write this email. I almost fainted. My son just asked me if he is contributing better. OMG! He gets it!

D.C.
Mother of 2

Bonus: Get FREE ACCESS to the Matthew Maynard’s
Private Facebook Group When You Enroll Today!

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